Chapter 134 Because Imperfection is Perfect
The last sentence took everyone a little by surprise.
After all, in everyone's eyes, a wedding is considered a beautiful thing, so why should it have any unpleasant meanings?
"But Xiaodou, why do you have to exist with such bad meanings?" Ning Baicha asked back.
Xiaodou smiled particularly brightly: "Maybe my thoughts are rather naive. I think people always like to see the bright side of everything, but in fact... many things have more than just the bright side. There are also many bad sides. If we only allow the good to exist in our lives, isn't it too..."
She hesitated for a moment, looking at everyone with burning eyes.
"But everyone works hard in pursuit of beauty," Xun Qing said puzzledly.
"But we also need to allow for the existence of the bad, and life is not always as smooth as we think." Xiaodou scratched his hair, "Aren't there a lot of voices on the Internet now? Everyone is questioning the meaning of marriage and is more afraid of entering into marriage. So, I hope I can face these issues at the wedding."
"That's not facing it squarely." Ning Baixuan suddenly said, "Only people who fail will stare at failure. Moreover, the reason why those people on the Internet fail in life is because they themselves are failures, so the other half they are looking for is also a failure. People who look at marriage or life with this mentality are weak themselves."
She looked at Xiaodou with a bit of arrogance: "A truly strong person will not let himself choose the wrong person. Whether it's your marriage or your life, it's not good because you don't have the ability to choose people. If you really choose the right person, these problems won't exist."
"But..." Xiaodou retorted subconsciously, "People are individuals. No matter how close the relationship between people is, it is impossible for them to understand each other 100%."
"There aren't so many buts." Ning Baixuan smiled slightly, "There are perfect lovers in this world. It's because you're not working hard enough and not smart enough that you can't find such a good person. However, since you already have this idea, it's probably impossible to open your mind. It means that you are mediocre, but sometimes, people have to accept their fate. Although you can't find a perfect husband, it's not a big problem to find a similar one."
Xiaodou pursed his lips: "Maybe you are right."
【What kind of disgusting statement is this? 】
[Isn't this world too man-loving? ]
[No... Did Xiaodou break some heavenly law? Why did he record a program with someone like Ning Baixuan? This kind of speech really makes me feel sick.]
[Ning Baixuan is purely misogynistic, right? ]
[Yes, yes, you are the best, and your boyfriend is the best. ]
[You are always misogynistic, but I am the one who is misogynistic! I have seen girls like Xiaodou before. She says these things, but in fact she is the so-called "clear-minded love brain". This kind of mentality is easy to develop. Boyfriends don't understand this, and they deduct points from her in their hearts. If the points are reduced to negative, they will break up. ]
[The last few sentences are indeed not appropriate, but what Ning Baixuan said before is quite right. If I am good enough, how can I not meet a good man? ]
[That is, why would those outstanding men choose you as their girlfriend? Isn’t it because you are useful to them? ]
[I am really dying of laughter at the comments. So the reason you want to be good enough is to find a good boyfriend? 6 ah. ]
【What both of them said is wrong.】
[No, this show is a love show that pits men against women, and the so-called "female protagonist" show. Please don't get involved, okay? ]
Perhaps feeling that what she said was a bit too blunt, Ning Baixuan apologized immediately.
"Sorry, sorry, I'm just too blunt sometimes, and maybe what I said is not right. After all, everyone's situation is different, but this is just what I think."
Ning Baicha, who was looking at the scenery outside the window, turned around and smiled at Xiaodou when he heard this: "I think you are quite good."
Ning Baixuan had just apologized, and Ning Baicha said this to Xiaodou, which seemed to be somewhat targeted.
[Sister Ai Cun starts pretending again. 】
【It's like saying nothing series. 】
[Heh, I myself relied on men to get to the top, how dare I criticize others? ]
But after hearing what Ning Baixuan said, Xiaodou was no longer in high spirits. She just smiled at Ning Baicha.
"In fact, my ideas are different from the mainstream ones nowadays. Maybe I am a little conservative sometimes."
"But no one can guarantee that they are 100% healthy all the time. If people can really do this, then why do people still get sick? Different people experience different lows. When they are at their lowest, human nature is to hope that someone can lend a hand to them."
Ning Baicha looked at Xiaodou seriously.
"It is extremely unreasonable to ask a woman to keep her eyes open all the time and look for the most docile wolf among all kinds of wolves in sheep's clothing, and to ask sheep to resist the temptation of nature." She had a faint smile on her face. "Thinking that you are special and can choose the best one from different men is also an extreme suppression of homosexuality."
Xun Qing lowered her head and spoke gently.
"It is a weird requirement to require women to be good enough to match men. We are good enough because we want to be good for ourselves, not for men. In relationships, whether it is passive or active, that is our experience. Asking women to be reserved and wait for love passively is the same as asking men to take the initiative and pursue love. It is the same stereotype."
【Give me a tea sister a highlight! 】
[That's right. Your ability to become an excellent and confident woman cannot be separated from the shaping of the environment. You can't expect a girl who has lived in an oppressive and oppressive environment since childhood to suddenly become wise. People are the product of the environment, and it is difficult for them to escape from the environment.]
[Ning Baixuan gives me the feeling that she teaches you how to choose a male husband, while Ning Baicha gives me the feeling that she focuses more on herself. As for everything else, just let it go.]
"I don't believe in love, but Xiaodou is very brave. You think that human nature has a dark side, so you allow beauty and imperfection to exist in your wedding. Because imperfection is perfection."