Chapter 405 You Are Stupid
Then look at her son Zhou Jin, he is wearing fine materials and clean clothes. With this comparison, people who don’t know would think that Shen Xue is Daya’s stepmother.
"Xue, Aunt Liu is not here to criticize you, but how could you raise Daya like this? People who don't know would think Daya is an orphan.
You gave birth to twins, and twins can bring you blessings. You are only good to Zhou Jin and ignore Daya. How can they bring you blessings? "
"Mom, you don't have to worry about it. Daya just loves to play. She's not as obedient as her brother. It's okay for a little girl to be a little dirty. It's nothing!"
Shen Xue didn't think she did anything wrong. Most girls in the village were raised casually, and she didn't think there was anything wrong with raising her daughter this way.
"You are stupid. You have to treat a girl well. You have to educate her from childhood. When she grows up, she can ask for a dowry with confidence. Do you understand?"
"I'll just raise her casually. When she grows up, I can ask for a dowry with confidence. I don't need to treat her well."
"How can a pampered person be the same as a person who is given nothing to eat? You can tell whether a person has worked by looking at his face or hands.
You really don't know how to calculate things, kid. You treat your daughter well, but when she grows up, will she not treat you, her own mother, well? When she grows up, will she not help her parents' family?
If you give her a bite of food, will she be good to you when she grows up? If she gets married and never comes back to her parents' home, do you think a one-time deal or a long-term deal is better?"
If Liu Pandi hadn't said this, given Shen Xue's personality, she would probably just give her a bite to eat. It would be fine if she just gave her a bite to eat, but he was afraid that she would abuse Daya.
After she said this, Shen Xue would have some concerns about what she wanted to do with the child.
After her mother said this, Shen Xue thought about it seriously for a while. After thinking for a long time, she felt that her mother was right, and she should be nicer to Daya.
"Oh, what are you saying, mother? Daya is my own daughter. If I don't treat her well, who should I treat well?
I'm not a stepmother, what can I do to her? Don't worry, I will treat Daya well in the future."
When Shen Xue praised Daya, it was because she was hungry. Shen Xue would not pretend not to hear her and would know how to feed her daughter.
I also remember to help my daughter take a bath. At least she doesn’t look as dirty as before.
When Mr. and Mrs. Shen were in the army, they missed their family. Now that they are back home, they are starting to miss their eldest granddaughter and great-grandchildren who are also in the army.
"There's no elder around to help Guaibao, and I don't know if she's busy enough to take care of the child herself.
It is so hard to take care of a child. My dear, you have never suffered since you were a child. The child is small and easy to cry. What if my dear can't take care of the child?
Chunling, why don't you go to the army in a couple of days? I don't feel comfortable letting Shuyu take care of the child by herself."
"Mom, didn't Shu Yu say that if she was too busy, she would write a letter home.
It's not good for me, an aunt, to stay here while they live together. I'll pack my things and go over after Shu Yu and her family have spoken."
Jiandong cares about his wife and children, but Shen Chunling is not as worried as her mother.
If Shu Yu was in confinement after childbirth, she really needed someone to take care of her. Now that she is out of confinement, her body has recovered well, and Xiaoze is a well-behaved child. Shen Chunling feels that there is no problem for her eldest niece and her husband to take care of a little baby.
"That's fine. Bring me some paper and pen and write a letter to my dear. I haven't seen Xiaoze for a few days. I miss him a lot. He's really popular now."
When they came back, Shen Shuyu took a lot of photos of her son, developed them, and asked her grandparents to bring them back to show their family.
After showing the photos to her family, Old Mrs. Shen went to the cowshed and asked her in-laws to see the child as well.
After seeing the photos of the children, Yang Zhen and Liang Jun felt more motivated to work than usual.
Everything is fine at home, and everything is also fine for Shen Shuyu in the army.
Grandparents and second aunt have gone back. Shen Shuyu is indeed not as comfortable as she was during the confinement period. She has to look after the child all the time. Shen Shuyu has to carry her son on her back no matter what she does.
However, Shen Shuyu didn't feel it was hard work. Gu Jiandong was the one who did the child's diapers and housework.
When Gu Jiandong is too busy in the vegetable garden, he will call his good brother Jiang Ziqiang to come and water the plants.
Shen Shuyu needs to take care of the children and cook a meal occasionally, but she doesn't have to do anything else.
As long as Gu Jiandong is at home, Shen Shuyu doesn't need to take care of the child.
When school started, Shen Shuyu got permission from the principal before bringing her child to work. Except for the first and second days when the child would cry when he heard the bell for classes, he got used to the bell after listening to it for a while.
Shen Shuyu carried him on her back to class. The child didn't cry or make a fuss, and didn't affect her class at all.
"Teacher Shen, I won't come to school tomorrow." Shen Shuyu's student Li Lehua stepped forward.
This girl is the quietest girl in the class and she is also the best student. Seeing her red eyes, Shen Shuyu asked softly, "Lehua, is there something wrong at home?"
"My mother gave birth to a younger brother. My grandmother said that it was useless for girls to study so much because when they grow up, they will marry someone else.
It’s enough to read and write your own name. There’s no need to look at so many books. My grandma didn’t let me go to school anymore and told me to stay home and take care of my younger brother. ”
Li Lehua is a child from a nearby village. The military school is close, so all the children from the surrounding areas come here to study.
Li Lehua knows that the opportunity to study is hard-won, so she cherishes it very much. She usually attends classes more seriously than other students and never gets distracted.
While her classmates would go out to play after class, she would sit at her desk quietly doing her homework and also preview in advance the content she was scheduled to learn in the next class.
It was a happy thing for her mother to give birth to a younger brother, but when she heard that she could no longer go to school, Li Lehua came to school crying.
Hearing Li Lehua's words, Shen Shuyu frowned. It is normal nowadays for older children to take care of younger brothers and sisters.
"Your grandma said that you can't study, so what is your parents' attitude?"
Li Lehua cried and said, "My parents don't agree, but my grandmother is the head of my family and all the money is in her hands. There is nothing I can do even if my parents don't agree."
"Be good, don't cry. The teacher will go to your house tomorrow and won't let you go without studying."
Shen Shuyu asked about Li Lehua's family situation and went back to the office to talk about it with other teachers. When the other teachers heard that she was going to make a home visit, they were not very supportive of her going.
"We have all been to Li Lehua's home. Her grandmother is a fierce person. She is not a delicate girl like you.
If you visit her home, she will accuse you of corrupting her granddaughter. She may even make a scene and ask you to pay her money or eggs. You can’t reason with an unreasonable old lady.”