Chapter 219 Shen 2niu's troubles
In fact, her in-laws were not as difficult to deal with as she had imagined. Now that Liu Pandi had grown smarter, she could easily control her in-laws.
Liu Pandi felt that she was the smartest one in the family. She touched her head, marveled at her own intelligence, and grinned.
"Xiangxi, I really envy you for marrying such a smart woman."
Uncle Shen: “…” You are indeed smart. Now you even praise yourself.
Afraid that the woman would think he was too clever and go back to her parents' home to get something without telling anyone, he said,
"You brought back so many eggs. Your family will definitely be angry. Don't go back. It's good enough that you can bring back so many eggs."
"I know, I know. I'll wait until the New Year to go back." There wouldn't be anything good to go back to her parents' home now. She wouldn't be able to take anything good with her, and she didn't want to make a wasted trip.
During the Chinese New Year, her mother would stew a lot of fat meat, and then she would go back to her parents' home to eat the fat meat.
Seeing so many eggs, Liu Pan happily took two eggs to the kitchen to fry them.
Uncle Shen went out and told his mother how Liu Pandi brought back the eggs from his mother's home. After hearing the whole story, Old Lady Shen and the others looked at Liu Pandi with admiration.
Feeling that her mother-in-law and sisters-in-law looked at her differently, Liu Pandi straightened her back unconsciously. She stuck her head out.
"Mom, eldest sister-in-law, second sister-in-law, if you have any questions in the future, you can come and discuss them with me. I, Liu Pandi, have a new brain, and it works well."
Hey, she's capable of that.
Old Lady Shen and the others ignored her, so this person couldn't praise her. If she did, Liu Pan would be easily flattered.
Her mother-in-law and sister-in-law ignored her, but Liu Pandi was not angry at all. She was so smart now, and she understood that her mother-in-law and sister-in-law must be jealous of her in their hearts.
Shen Shuyu hadn't gone out for half a month and had been staying at home. Shen Shuyu couldn't stay there any longer. She woke up in the morning and saw light snow floating in the sky. She wrapped herself tightly, leaving only a pair of eyes exposed, and rode her bicycle to the next village to see Shen Erniu.
Shen Erniu is now in advanced pregnancy and sometimes needs help from others when she gets up. Seeing Sister Shen coming to see her again,
Shen Erniu was so happy that she couldn't express it in words. "It's so cold today, how did you get here? You must have been frozen on the way. Come on and warm yourself up on the kang."
Shen Shuyu took off her shoes and got on the kang. She looked a little haggard, "Did you not sleep well recently? Why do you look so bad?"
"Yes, I didn't sleep well. These days, my mind is always full of thoughts. I think too much and can't sleep all night. I also cry easily."
"What are you thinking about? Tell me. If you have something on your mind, you can't keep it to yourself. It's not good for you and the child."
With her good sister here, Shen Erniu finally had someone to talk to. She said everything she wanted to say.
"My in-laws and my husband are so nice to me, I always feel like I don't deserve them to be so nice to me.
The better they treat me, the more guilty I feel. Once I feel guilty, I always worry about gains and losses.
The child was born a few months later, and I was afraid that I wouldn’t be a good mother, and I was afraid that the child wouldn’t like me…”
If Shen Erniu told others this, they might think she was showing off. Being treated well by your parents-in-law and your husband is something that many women cannot even ask for.
In an age when people can’t even get enough to eat, no one has the time to think about whether the other person loves them or not.
Most couples are met by a matchmaker. If they are attracted to each other or their families think that the other is a good person, a wedding banquet can be prepared the next day.
Nowadays, couples get along more by making do with each other. Whether a husband treats his wife well or not depends on whether he has a sense of responsibility.
Marrying a man is like opening a blind box. If you marry a good one, you will be happy. If you marry a bad one, you have to grit your teeth and live your life anyway.
Because not every parent is like Mr. and Mrs. Shen, who can accept their daughter's divorce and move back to her parents' home, who can accept everyone's gossip, and who can extend their arms to protect their daughter.
Marrying into the Xu family, where Shen Erniu lives, has kind parents-in-law, a responsible man who knows how to care for his wife, is truly a great marriage.
Her parents-in-law and her husband are too good to her, and she feels burdened and worried. If the old ladies in the village knew about this, they would definitely think she is ungrateful.
But Shen Shuyu understood why she had such thoughts. Shen Erniu was too kind. Because of her stepmother,
She didn't feel any love in her original family, so she often doubted whether she was a good person, so her biological father and stepmother disliked her.
After marrying into the Xu family, Shen Erniu felt that her parents-in-law were kind and caring towards her, and that the man took good care of her. Shen Erniu felt warm but also a little uneasy.
Plus, pregnant women tend to think too much, and when they think too much, their tears fall like heavy rain at night.
Shen Shuyu smiled and said to Shen Erniu over and over again, "Ernui, you are very good, very good, you deserve them to treat you well.
They treat you well because you deserve it. You don't need to feel guilty. You are a family, and your family treats you well from the bottom of their hearts.
You don't have to feel guilty or burdened.
I heard from my grandma that babies will choose their own parents. The baby in your belly must like you and choose you as its mother..."
"Shu Yu, am I really okay?"
"Well, you are very good, very good, everyone likes you very much."
The two sisters were talking in the room. Xu Guosheng did not go in to disturb them. He was in the kitchen making lunch. Zhao Meixiang came out with a bowl of dried black fungus.
"Shu Yu is here, soak the black fungus and cut some bacon, and we'll have fried black fungus with bacon for lunch.
Shu Yu came, Erniu finally had someone she could talk to, and the two sisters talked, which made Erniu feel happier.
This daughter-in-law has had a hard time being pregnant, you should take care of her more often, just listen to what she says, Erniu is a good girl."
The second daughter-in-law married into the family and treated them very well. She was more filial than their own daughter. When she was not pregnant,
I have to take care of everything at home and outside. Even when I'm pregnant, I can't sit still and always have to find something to do.
The daughter-in-law is a good daughter-in-law, but she is always cautious at home and is always afraid that their parents will get angry. This needs to be changed.
"Mom, Erniu is my wife. I know how to treat my wife well. You don't need to tell me."
"Just know, hurry up and cook."
Shen Shuyu kept comforting her, and Shen Erniu finally came to her senses. She no longer had those thoughts that always made her unhappy. "Jin Bao said that he and your Jiandong killed three wild boars a while ago?"
"Yes, we killed three, two of them were pretty strong. Oh, there's some meat hanging on the bicycle, I'll go get it down."
When he came, Shen Shuyu cut two kilograms of wild boar meat and hung it on the bicycle. The meat was now frozen hard and had to be thawed in hot water before eating.