Chapter 181 "Lecture" continues
"People, an encounter, a memory, a separation, a lifetime of nostalgia, live up to the encounter, don't talk about debts... How Buddhist this person must be, but can he apply this to his daily life?"
When Murong Xue thought about all that... How tiring it was? It would be better for her to be alone and free.
After she said these words, Long Zhan walked over to her and sat down, reaching out and holding his hand tightly.
Murong Xue: “…”Brother, pay attention to your image.
Long Zhan: This is not my fault. No one in my family said anything about it, and no one cares.
Fu Yunqi became stubborn again: "Love can bring joy, happiness, satisfaction and security."
Murong Xue rolled her eyes at him and said, "That's your own experience. You live in a dream all day long. My sense of security is money."
Hua Jinlong shook his head: "Too realistic."
Murong Xue: "I am just an ordinary person, don't think it's unpleasant to mention money.
We live for money, making money, spending money, on the way to make money, on the way to spend money. Can you deny it?
What's the point of having a relationship without money? Can you fill your stomach with a few sweet words and a meal? Can you rely on empty promises? Then the marriage is not reliable after all."
Long Zhan really wanted to say: I have money, a lot of it, enough for you to spend. I’m not good at making empty promises, it’s very reliable.
Fu Wushuang was puzzled: "What is a pancake?"
Murong Xue was speechless. This child doesn’t even understand this?
"There is a man pursuing you. He said, I will give you the life you want. Are you touched?"
Fu Wushuang nodded.
Murong Xue continued: "What kind of life do you want? A better life than the one you have now?"
Fu Wushuang blinked, and blinked again, looking at Murong Xue with his big black eyes. Yes, who could give her the life she has now?
"When you want to buy something, he says, this one is not good, I will buy you a better one later?
What would you think at this time? Would you feel touched, that he loves you very much, and think that I want something better than this?
You think, if he can't even afford this thing, then he can afford something better?"
Fu Wushuang nodded: "Yes."
“So this is just pie in the sky.”
Huo Linyi: "From what you said, you won't get married?"
Murong Xue: "Get married? But are you mentally prepared before getting married?"
Huo Siyao: "What preparations?"
Murong Xue: "Prepare firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea."
Fu Wushuang and Huo Siyao were confused, what was that?
“When two people live together, it may seem like it’s just a two-person thing, but it’s not.
It is your small family, your husband's family, and your own family. Broadly speaking, it is a matter between two families.
Once you get married, things change and you won't be as good as when you were in love.
The man started to get busier and busier every day, and came home late, or even rarely...
Because you lack his company, you start to have wild thoughts, and your resentment accumulates more and more... and finally erupts like a volcano."
Hua Jinyu: "That's true."
Huo Linyi: "Isn't it like this in every family?"
Murong Xue: "Can this be the same?"
Hua Jinlong sighed: "Every family has its own problems."
Murong Xue: "Add one more sentence, poor couples have many sorrows."
Hua Jinlong was stunned: "Uh, yes, hahaha..."
Long Zhan stretched out a finger and pointed it at Murong Xue's forehead: "Where do you get so many words from?"
"I thought about it."
Fu Yunqi was surprised: "Why don't I know these words?"
"Because you have returned what you have learned to your teacher."
Hua Jinlong: “Hahahaha…”
Huo Linyi: “Hahaha…”
"If you want to live a happy life, don't touch your tolerance and trust," Murong Xue looked at them.
Hua Jinyu mustered up the courage to ask tentatively: "What if there are problems between husband and wife? How to solve them?"
Murong Xue: Is there something wrong between them and their marriage?
“Communication. There is no better idea than communication.”
Hua Jinyu was a little embarrassed: "This..."
Murong Xue looked at him like this: "Is it difficult? Or can't you let go of your dignity?"
Hua Jinyu shook his head. He was in a very complicated mood right now, with all kinds of emotions: "It's hard to say."
Murongxue looked at Hua Jinyu and smiled: "Face? You're talking about face with your own wife? Are you kidding, brother?
You two are sincere to each other and have children, right? Are you trying to save face?
You say you are stupid, but don't forget that the person who will accompany you until old age is not your parents, not your brothers and sisters, and not your children, but her, your wife.
A man can save face in front of anyone, including his own children, but not his own wife. "
Hua Jinyu was embarrassed when he was hit on by the words: "She quarreled with me before we could even say a few words."
"What your wife is like depends entirely on you. If you are incompetent, she will be a female demon... How gentle and considerate she is proves how much you pamper her.
Men at home not only earn money, but also need to share the burden..."
Long Zhan held Murong Xue's hand a little tighter. He would pamper her as much as possible in the future.
Murong Xue glared at Long Zhan, wondering what this guy was doing. She then said to Hua Jinyu, "Find a hotel, rent a private room, and decorate it to look like your wedding or the most memorable day for you.
You ask her out alone, have a candlelight dinner, give her a gift, and talk about the memories of how you two met, got to know each other, and fell in love... Tomorrow will be better.
Don't tell me that you have a house or something. Husbands and wives also have a period of fatigue. I think your family doesn't lack romance occasionally."
Hua Jinyu smiled after hearing this suggestion: "That's fine."
Hua Jinlong looked at his younger brother. This kid was good in every way except that he was too concerned about his reputation.
He is easy to talk to everyone, but when he is in front of his younger brother and sister-in-law, he is as serious as a textbook.
I don't know who he is showing his seriousness to. Murong Xue is right. You and your wife sleep in the same bed, and you still have face to save?
Fu Wushuang's eyes sparkled: "Xiaoxue, you really know a lot."
Murong Xue blushed a little at her praise: "Isn't that how it's played in TV dramas?"
Huo Siyao tilted his head and thought for a moment: "Don't mention it, it's true."
“Life is like a play, and a play is like life. It’s OK as long as you know what you are doing.
Don’t care about what others think. You are not living for others to see. Don’t make yourself too tired. Just be you.
We all come to this world as human beings for the first time, why should we wrong ourselves and go against ourselves?" Murong Xue said to the others.
Fu Wushuang frowned: "It's hard to understand."
Hua Jinlong said with a smile: "You are right, this is our first time as a human being, don't be hard on yourself."